"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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scored a number, almost the weekend, when should i contact?

LoneWolf

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okay so i been exchanging messages with this cute girl from a dating site. she sounds very interested. anyway, i decided to go for the number two nights ago. she messaged back tonight and it was a long reply. anyway it went a little like this (the messages were much longer but i'll post the important parts):

me:
so you work around my way ey? i think this calls for an appointment sometime! give me your number and i will give you a call sometime so we can hang out, get to know each other a lil more :)

her:

I work out <location> way, and I pretty much cover <location> area, so close to <my area>! Perhaps we could get to know each other a little more, so here is my number for u.....<number> PLEASE i just ask that you write your name on the text, so I can know that the sms is from u, that's if u choose to sms before call hahaha

Speak later then :)

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so my question to you fellas is how do i take it from here? obviously i am supposed to call not text. but would it be too soon to call tomorrow afternoon and set up a date the next day which will be friday? because its already so close to the weekend. i mean she sounds interested enough? otherwise i would have to make it next weekend :S

she's expecting me to text her so she gets my number i suppose? i was thinking just text her saying "hey there! here's my number, it's <my name> :)" and maybe from there she would make a time for us to hang out. she even said "perhaps we could get to know each other a little more." like she's already set it up in her mind. meh i hate arranging dates. the worst part.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cstrife32

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wait till sunday and call her, texting is stupid and can make you look needy at times when you didn't want/mean to. when you call her, keep the conversation short but genuine and polite and ask her out. make sure you know where you want to go and when you want to go before you call her. i think reading these two threads would help you out with this.

MoTu's how to close the sale:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16267

Pimpology's How to set up the first date:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16766

if you follow what these guys say, you should get a date no matter what
 

mahoney

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i dont think that is too soon at all - that seems a natural arc/progression, and i think its good to go for this weekend (if its not convenient for her she can of course counter with a different offer)
 

Tiguere

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Dude quit it. Everyone knows you're a troll. Stop making threadsm
 

LoneWolf

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Tiguere said:
Dude quit it. Everyone knows you're a troll. Stop making threadsm
bro.. seriously. i think YOU are becoming the troll here. i'm not fuking trolling alright? far out! how the fuk can i be making all this up, whats ya problem man lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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