"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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scored a number, almost the weekend, when should i contact?

LoneWolf

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okay so i been exchanging messages with this cute girl from a dating site. she sounds very interested. anyway, i decided to go for the number two nights ago. she messaged back tonight and it was a long reply. anyway it went a little like this (the messages were much longer but i'll post the important parts):

me:
so you work around my way ey? i think this calls for an appointment sometime! give me your number and i will give you a call sometime so we can hang out, get to know each other a lil more :)

her:

I work out <location> way, and I pretty much cover <location> area, so close to <my area>! Perhaps we could get to know each other a little more, so here is my number for u.....<number> PLEASE i just ask that you write your name on the text, so I can know that the sms is from u, that's if u choose to sms before call hahaha

Speak later then :)

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so my question to you fellas is how do i take it from here? obviously i am supposed to call not text. but would it be too soon to call tomorrow afternoon and set up a date the next day which will be friday? because its already so close to the weekend. i mean she sounds interested enough? otherwise i would have to make it next weekend :S

she's expecting me to text her so she gets my number i suppose? i was thinking just text her saying "hey there! here's my number, it's <my name> :)" and maybe from there she would make a time for us to hang out. she even said "perhaps we could get to know each other a little more." like she's already set it up in her mind. meh i hate arranging dates. the worst part.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cstrife32

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wait till sunday and call her, texting is stupid and can make you look needy at times when you didn't want/mean to. when you call her, keep the conversation short but genuine and polite and ask her out. make sure you know where you want to go and when you want to go before you call her. i think reading these two threads would help you out with this.

MoTu's how to close the sale:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16267

Pimpology's How to set up the first date:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16766

if you follow what these guys say, you should get a date no matter what
 

mahoney

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i dont think that is too soon at all - that seems a natural arc/progression, and i think its good to go for this weekend (if its not convenient for her she can of course counter with a different offer)
 

Tiguere

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Dude quit it. Everyone knows you're a troll. Stop making threadsm
 

LoneWolf

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Tiguere said:
Dude quit it. Everyone knows you're a troll. Stop making threadsm
bro.. seriously. i think YOU are becoming the troll here. i'm not fuking trolling alright? far out! how the fuk can i be making all this up, whats ya problem man lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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