"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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scored a number, almost the weekend, when should i contact?

LoneWolf

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okay so i been exchanging messages with this cute girl from a dating site. she sounds very interested. anyway, i decided to go for the number two nights ago. she messaged back tonight and it was a long reply. anyway it went a little like this (the messages were much longer but i'll post the important parts):

me:
so you work around my way ey? i think this calls for an appointment sometime! give me your number and i will give you a call sometime so we can hang out, get to know each other a lil more :)

her:

I work out <location> way, and I pretty much cover <location> area, so close to <my area>! Perhaps we could get to know each other a little more, so here is my number for u.....<number> PLEASE i just ask that you write your name on the text, so I can know that the sms is from u, that's if u choose to sms before call hahaha

Speak later then :)

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so my question to you fellas is how do i take it from here? obviously i am supposed to call not text. but would it be too soon to call tomorrow afternoon and set up a date the next day which will be friday? because its already so close to the weekend. i mean she sounds interested enough? otherwise i would have to make it next weekend :S

she's expecting me to text her so she gets my number i suppose? i was thinking just text her saying "hey there! here's my number, it's <my name> :)" and maybe from there she would make a time for us to hang out. she even said "perhaps we could get to know each other a little more." like she's already set it up in her mind. meh i hate arranging dates. the worst part.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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cstrife32

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wait till sunday and call her, texting is stupid and can make you look needy at times when you didn't want/mean to. when you call her, keep the conversation short but genuine and polite and ask her out. make sure you know where you want to go and when you want to go before you call her. i think reading these two threads would help you out with this.

MoTu's how to close the sale:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16267

Pimpology's How to set up the first date:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16766

if you follow what these guys say, you should get a date no matter what
 

mahoney

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i dont think that is too soon at all - that seems a natural arc/progression, and i think its good to go for this weekend (if its not convenient for her she can of course counter with a different offer)
 

Tiguere

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Dude quit it. Everyone knows you're a troll. Stop making threadsm
 

LoneWolf

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Tiguere said:
Dude quit it. Everyone knows you're a troll. Stop making threadsm
bro.. seriously. i think YOU are becoming the troll here. i'm not fuking trolling alright? far out! how the fuk can i be making all this up, whats ya problem man lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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