"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MidnightResistance

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Before I left my last work place, having informed one person that I was going to be a Project Manager for a Publishing Company, the gossip spread around the office within just 1 hour and I was swarmed by women all fighting for my attention because I have a good job coming up (and not the sh1t one I had been at).
I had all sorts of attractive chicks throwing themselves at me because I look good, I'm fit, I have confidence and now I have a great job.
The only snag was, that I took interest in one of the chicks, went to get her number (what the hell do I care, I'm leaving the office forever) and as soon as I made the approach she totally lost interest, then bragged to the other women that she had knocked me back and how great she was for doing it. hey all turned on me at the same time.
Luckilly I was leaving that day.

But...What The Fvck Happened There? :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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From the sound of it I would think that your approach was not from a "Prize" standpoint.

You should have took a dominant angle, like you were "letting" her give you her number.

Know what I mean?
 
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Yes, I did that.

I'm starting to think that most chicks are just fvcked up.
 
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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
Yes, I did that.

I'm starting to think that most chicks are just fvcked up.
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This is also true, lol.

Maybe let us know what your actual approach was and try to see if it was anything you did...
 
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