"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Before I left my last work place, having informed one person that I was going to be a Project Manager for a Publishing Company, the gossip spread around the office within just 1 hour and I was swarmed by women all fighting for my attention because I have a good job coming up (and not the sh1t one I had been at).
I had all sorts of attractive chicks throwing themselves at me because I look good, I'm fit, I have confidence and now I have a great job.
The only snag was, that I took interest in one of the chicks, went to get her number (what the hell do I care, I'm leaving the office forever) and as soon as I made the approach she totally lost interest, then bragged to the other women that she had knocked me back and how great she was for doing it. hey all turned on me at the same time.
Luckilly I was leaving that day.

But...What The Fvck Happened There? :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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From the sound of it I would think that your approach was not from a "Prize" standpoint.

You should have took a dominant angle, like you were "letting" her give you her number.

Know what I mean?
 
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Yes, I did that.

I'm starting to think that most chicks are just fvcked up.
 
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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
Yes, I did that.

I'm starting to think that most chicks are just fvcked up.
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This is also true, lol.

Maybe let us know what your actual approach was and try to see if it was anything you did...
 
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