"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scary Change of Situation

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Before I left my last work place, having informed one person that I was going to be a Project Manager for a Publishing Company, the gossip spread around the office within just 1 hour and I was swarmed by women all fighting for my attention because I have a good job coming up (and not the sh1t one I had been at).
I had all sorts of attractive chicks throwing themselves at me because I look good, I'm fit, I have confidence and now I have a great job.
The only snag was, that I took interest in one of the chicks, went to get her number (what the hell do I care, I'm leaving the office forever) and as soon as I made the approach she totally lost interest, then bragged to the other women that she had knocked me back and how great she was for doing it. hey all turned on me at the same time.
Luckilly I was leaving that day.

But...What The Fvck Happened There? :(
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From the sound of it I would think that your approach was not from a "Prize" standpoint.

You should have took a dominant angle, like you were "letting" her give you her number.

Know what I mean?
 
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Yes, I did that.

I'm starting to think that most chicks are just fvcked up.
 
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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
Yes, I did that.

I'm starting to think that most chicks are just fvcked up.
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This is also true, lol.

Maybe let us know what your actual approach was and try to see if it was anything you did...
 
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