please its killing me inside that i fuked up last night and didn't even kiss her. are there any words of wisdom that will make me get some balls and just kiss her! im so scared to try anything and look like an idiot. i use to be good with girls but i haven't been with one for a while. she might be coming over later on and im finding it hard to step up.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
scared to make moves, HELP!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
tappa
Don Juan
stop focusing on it soo hard, that should be the least thing to worry about.
as someone said on this forum before
..its better to try and succeed or fail than to not try at all and you are stuck beating up yourself like what your doing now.
JUST GO FOR IT! what have you got to lose?
as someone said on this forum before
..its better to try and succeed or fail than to not try at all and you are stuck beating up yourself like what your doing now.
JUST GO FOR IT! what have you got to lose?
talk to you online." GRRR i fuked up last nighttappa
Don Juan
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Dont put so much emphasis on it...but i feel your frustration..that has also happend to me, but i learned that its always better to take the shot and miss than to wonder later on what if?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.