please its killing me inside that i fuked up last night and didn't even kiss her. are there any words of wisdom that will make me get some balls and just kiss her! im so scared to try anything and look like an idiot. i use to be good with girls but i haven't been with one for a while. she might be coming over later on and im finding it hard to step up.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
scared to make moves, HELP!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tappa
Don Juan
stop focusing on it soo hard, that should be the least thing to worry about.
as someone said on this forum before
..its better to try and succeed or fail than to not try at all and you are stuck beating up yourself like what your doing now.
JUST GO FOR IT! what have you got to lose?
as someone said on this forum before
..its better to try and succeed or fail than to not try at all and you are stuck beating up yourself like what your doing now.
JUST GO FOR IT! what have you got to lose?
talk to you online." GRRR i fuked up last nighttappa
Don Juan
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Dont put so much emphasis on it...but i feel your frustration..that has also happend to me, but i learned that its always better to take the shot and miss than to wonder later on what if?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.