please its killing me inside that i fuked up last night and didn't even kiss her. are there any words of wisdom that will make me get some balls and just kiss her! im so scared to try anything and look like an idiot. i use to be good with girls but i haven't been with one for a while. she might be coming over later on and im finding it hard to step up.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
scared to make moves, HELP!
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tappa
Don Juan
stop focusing on it soo hard, that should be the least thing to worry about.
as someone said on this forum before
..its better to try and succeed or fail than to not try at all and you are stuck beating up yourself like what your doing now.
JUST GO FOR IT! what have you got to lose?
as someone said on this forum before
..its better to try and succeed or fail than to not try at all and you are stuck beating up yourself like what your doing now.
JUST GO FOR IT! what have you got to lose?
talk to you online." GRRR i fuked up last nighttappa
Don Juan
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Dont put so much emphasis on it...but i feel your frustration..that has also happend to me, but i learned that its always better to take the shot and miss than to wonder later on what if?
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.