What do you do when a girl says "sorry i've been busy" or "sorry I forgot to call" or "sorry I can't talk right now I'm busy but I'll call you later" or something along those lines, when you IM or call her and say how's it going. It's always "sorry" and it makes me want to say something about it. I'm not being AFC I just want to know if there's something ****y funny I could say.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
saying sorry i didn't contact you
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If it happens to often then maybe you should stop calling this girl.
I usually say with a sincere voice: "that's ok I actually went out and ended up having a good time" without being specific. If she likes you then this should send an alarm bells to her head that she better stop acting flakey or else you will continue having a good time without her.
I usually say with a sincere voice: "that's ok I actually went out and ended up having a good time" without being specific. If she likes you then this should send an alarm bells to her head that she better stop acting flakey or else you will continue having a good time without her.
musclyjerk
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Strike 1 !
Strike 2 !
BLOCK & DELETE & IGNORE HER ATTEMPTS TO CONTACT YOU - SHE'S OUTTA THERE!
The Muscly Jerk
Strike 2 !
BLOCK & DELETE & IGNORE HER ATTEMPTS TO CONTACT YOU - SHE'S OUTTA THERE!
The Muscly Jerk
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
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The word sorry is just a cheap coup out. Im quite angered if sokebody tells me sorry with nothing behind it, I want an expanation and a guaratee of effort that it wont happen again.
"Sorry", is a piece of ****.
"Sorry", is a piece of ****.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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She is rejecting you and being nice about it!! Very Low interest!
Yeah, she has low interest dude...
If she wanted to talk to you, she'd make time!
I suggest you stop talking to girls on any type of IM.
Go as far as to block them if they do get your screen name.
You don't want her knowing you are sitting behind a PC ALONE!
If she wanted to talk to you, she'd make time!
I suggest you stop talking to girls on any type of IM.
Go as far as to block them if they do get your screen name.
You don't want her knowing you are sitting behind a PC ALONE!
****y and Funny eh?
I love saying this when they say sorry.
Her: "Sorry"
Me: No you're not, you are a liar!
Then talk about whatever and say:
"Playing hard to get eh? Nice"
If that doesn't get a reply or her talking, then just next her, but its worked fine for me.
I love saying this when they say sorry.
Her: "Sorry"
Me: No you're not, you are a liar!
Then talk about whatever and say:
"Playing hard to get eh? Nice"
If that doesn't get a reply or her talking, then just next her, but its worked fine for me.
Ahh the flake. Happens to everyone. Usually I ignore the flake. DON'T call her back if she was supposed to call you...and usually it ends there. If she is supposed to call you to let you know if she can make a date...and doesn't, then the next time you talk to her just say "I don't think this is going to work. We aren't compatible". Either her interest will come up or your finished. Either way it puts an end to the flaking.
Well it's not like she was "supposed" to talk to me or anything, but if I see her on AIM I'll talk to her, and she's all apologetic like she owes me something by not talking to me earlier. I'm pretty sure it's low interest level though, I think I had a shot earlier but lost it. Oh well. I'll just stop contacting her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah I think so man. I had a chick do that to me when I was super AFC. She gave me her # over aim and everything and we talked like 5 or 6 times. I even went to the movies to meet her and she never showed. She apologized to me and she was always initiating conversations with ME. But finally I realized she was just trying to see how far I would go. I hated those days.
Pappadapolis
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You ARE being an AFC. A chick that loves you would never forget to call. You stay on her mind all day. You're all they think about. If you tell them you'll call, they will sit by the phone all weekend to make sure they don't miss your call.rrrrr said:What do you do when a girl says "sorry i've been busy" or "sorry I forgot to call" or "sorry I can't talk right now I'm busy but I'll call you later" or something along those lines, when you IM or call her and say how's it going. It's always "sorry" and it makes me want to say something about it. I'm not being AFC I just want to know if there's something ****y funny I could say.
This chick doesn't care about you dude. You're trying to rationalize her actions. Rationalization is the First Amendment in the AFC constitution.