What do you do when a girl says "sorry i've been busy" or "sorry I forgot to call" or "sorry I can't talk right now I'm busy but I'll call you later" or something along those lines, when you IM or call her and say how's it going. It's always "sorry" and it makes me want to say something about it. I'm not being AFC I just want to know if there's something ****y funny I could say.
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saying sorry i didn't contact you
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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If it happens to often then maybe you should stop calling this girl.
I usually say with a sincere voice: "that's ok I actually went out and ended up having a good time" without being specific. If she likes you then this should send an alarm bells to her head that she better stop acting flakey or else you will continue having a good time without her.
I usually say with a sincere voice: "that's ok I actually went out and ended up having a good time" without being specific. If she likes you then this should send an alarm bells to her head that she better stop acting flakey or else you will continue having a good time without her.
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Strike 1 !
Strike 2 !
BLOCK & DELETE & IGNORE HER ATTEMPTS TO CONTACT YOU - SHE'S OUTTA THERE!
The Muscly Jerk
Strike 2 !
BLOCK & DELETE & IGNORE HER ATTEMPTS TO CONTACT YOU - SHE'S OUTTA THERE!
The Muscly Jerk
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
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The word sorry is just a cheap coup out. Im quite angered if sokebody tells me sorry with nothing behind it, I want an expanation and a guaratee of effort that it wont happen again.
"Sorry", is a piece of ****.
"Sorry", is a piece of ****.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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She is rejecting you and being nice about it!! Very Low interest!
Yeah, she has low interest dude...
If she wanted to talk to you, she'd make time!
I suggest you stop talking to girls on any type of IM.
Go as far as to block them if they do get your screen name.
You don't want her knowing you are sitting behind a PC ALONE!
If she wanted to talk to you, she'd make time!
I suggest you stop talking to girls on any type of IM.
Go as far as to block them if they do get your screen name.
You don't want her knowing you are sitting behind a PC ALONE!
****y and Funny eh?
I love saying this when they say sorry.
Her: "Sorry"
Me: No you're not, you are a liar!
Then talk about whatever and say:
"Playing hard to get eh? Nice"
If that doesn't get a reply or her talking, then just next her, but its worked fine for me.
I love saying this when they say sorry.
Her: "Sorry"
Me: No you're not, you are a liar!
Then talk about whatever and say:
"Playing hard to get eh? Nice"
If that doesn't get a reply or her talking, then just next her, but its worked fine for me.
Ahh the flake. Happens to everyone. Usually I ignore the flake. DON'T call her back if she was supposed to call you...and usually it ends there. If she is supposed to call you to let you know if she can make a date...and doesn't, then the next time you talk to her just say "I don't think this is going to work. We aren't compatible". Either her interest will come up or your finished. Either way it puts an end to the flaking.
Well it's not like she was "supposed" to talk to me or anything, but if I see her on AIM I'll talk to her, and she's all apologetic like she owes me something by not talking to me earlier. I'm pretty sure it's low interest level though, I think I had a shot earlier but lost it. Oh well. I'll just stop contacting her.
Yeah I think so man. I had a chick do that to me when I was super AFC. She gave me her # over aim and everything and we talked like 5 or 6 times. I even went to the movies to meet her and she never showed. She apologized to me and she was always initiating conversations with ME. But finally I realized she was just trying to see how far I would go. I hated those days.
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You ARE being an AFC. A chick that loves you would never forget to call. You stay on her mind all day. You're all they think about. If you tell them you'll call, they will sit by the phone all weekend to make sure they don't miss your call.rrrrr said:What do you do when a girl says "sorry i've been busy" or "sorry I forgot to call" or "sorry I can't talk right now I'm busy but I'll call you later" or something along those lines, when you IM or call her and say how's it going. It's always "sorry" and it makes me want to say something about it. I'm not being AFC I just want to know if there's something ****y funny I could say.
This chick doesn't care about you dude. You're trying to rationalize her actions. Rationalization is the First Amendment in the AFC constitution.