"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have a hard time letting people down, and theres one girl who Id say is about a 4 and she keeps bugging me to "hang out and see her" etc... I feel guilty always making up excuses but I feel like I lead her on, only because I was nice to her now she must think I have some interest in her. Any simple way of saying "Im not interested" without making her feel bad?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hang out with her. As a friend would.
Be nice and respectful towards her, but do it like a eunuch would. Show absolutely no sexual interest. Maintain 2 1/2 to 3 feet of distance at all times.Act like a woman would to a man she wanted to be just friends with. Try to hook her up with one of your friends.

If she brings it up, be honest. Tell her that there are other ladies in your life, and that you are not interested in finding another one at this time. Tell her you like her though, and would like to be friends with her.
 
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magickarl said:
Hang out with her. As a friend would.
Be nice and respectful towards her, but do it like a eunuch would. Show absolutely no sexual interest. Maintain 2 1/2 to 3 feet of distance at all times.Act like a woman would to a man she wanted to be just friends with. Try to hook her up with one of your friends.

If she brings it up, be honest. Tell her that there are other ladies in your life, and that you are not interested in finding another one at this time. Tell her you like her though, and would like to be friends with her.
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Exactly, i couldn't have said any better. Also you can tell her that your friendship is too valuable to risk
 
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don't **** it up

mtlwlu said:
I have a hard time letting people down, and theres one girl who Id say is about a 4 and she keeps bugging me to "hang out and see her" etc... I feel guilty always making up excuses but I feel like I lead her on, only because I was nice to her now she must think I have some interest in her. Any simple way of saying "Im not interested" without making her feel bad?
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just be nice, and say you don't want to be with her , because you don't want to have relationship right now (this is just an exemple how to say no , without hurting her feelings),
and also you can have a benefit in this type of situations, be friends with her maybe she haves beautiful girl friends or somethin,
 
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