"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have a hard time letting people down, and theres one girl who Id say is about a 4 and she keeps bugging me to "hang out and see her" etc... I feel guilty always making up excuses but I feel like I lead her on, only because I was nice to her now she must think I have some interest in her. Any simple way of saying "Im not interested" without making her feel bad?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hang out with her. As a friend would.
Be nice and respectful towards her, but do it like a eunuch would. Show absolutely no sexual interest. Maintain 2 1/2 to 3 feet of distance at all times.Act like a woman would to a man she wanted to be just friends with. Try to hook her up with one of your friends.

If she brings it up, be honest. Tell her that there are other ladies in your life, and that you are not interested in finding another one at this time. Tell her you like her though, and would like to be friends with her.
 
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magickarl said:
Hang out with her. As a friend would.
Be nice and respectful towards her, but do it like a eunuch would. Show absolutely no sexual interest. Maintain 2 1/2 to 3 feet of distance at all times.Act like a woman would to a man she wanted to be just friends with. Try to hook her up with one of your friends.

If she brings it up, be honest. Tell her that there are other ladies in your life, and that you are not interested in finding another one at this time. Tell her you like her though, and would like to be friends with her.
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Exactly, i couldn't have said any better. Also you can tell her that your friendship is too valuable to risk
 
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don't **** it up

mtlwlu said:
I have a hard time letting people down, and theres one girl who Id say is about a 4 and she keeps bugging me to "hang out and see her" etc... I feel guilty always making up excuses but I feel like I lead her on, only because I was nice to her now she must think I have some interest in her. Any simple way of saying "Im not interested" without making her feel bad?
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just be nice, and say you don't want to be with her , because you don't want to have relationship right now (this is just an exemple how to say no , without hurting her feelings),
and also you can have a benefit in this type of situations, be friends with her maybe she haves beautiful girl friends or somethin,
 
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