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Bud_Fox
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I read somewhere that by saying I love you during sex the girl will think you only love having sex with her, and don't really love her.
Any thoughts on this?
Any thoughts on this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
never do it, it is a side of weakness.... its like saying "thank you" after you have nailed her which she would see as desperation. It is like you could not get any booty before and she has just given you what you have been asking god for eternity. thats how i see it
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Nope..unless she's super insecure. Otherwise, saying I love you doesn't hurt. I don't understand why guys make such a big deal about it. It doesn't give away your power to say I love you. You give away your power when you say I love you and act like a pvssy about it.Bud_Fox said:
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I use ILY in the context my partner uses it in.
If she says it whenever she feels it, then so do I.
If she only says it when she is really feeling it intensely, then so do I.
I find this is something that needs to be used like this to avoid entering a scenario where it is said that one person loves another more.
If she says it whenever she feels it, then so do I.
If she only says it when she is really feeling it intensely, then so do I.
I find this is something that needs to be used like this to avoid entering a scenario where it is said that one person loves another more.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
My thought is, why are you saying I Love You during sex?Bud_Fox said:
Tell her afterwards or before or....any other damn time. Use sex time for sex talk. Not emotional talk.