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Bud_Fox
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I read somewhere that by saying I love you during sex the girl will think you only love having sex with her, and don't really love her.
Any thoughts on this?
Any thoughts on this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
never do it, it is a side of weakness.... its like saying "thank you" after you have nailed her which she would see as desperation. It is like you could not get any booty before and she has just given you what you have been asking god for eternity. thats how i see it
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Nope..unless she's super insecure. Otherwise, saying I love you doesn't hurt. I don't understand why guys make such a big deal about it. It doesn't give away your power to say I love you. You give away your power when you say I love you and act like a pvssy about it.Bud_Fox said:
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I use ILY in the context my partner uses it in.
If she says it whenever she feels it, then so do I.
If she only says it when she is really feeling it intensely, then so do I.
I find this is something that needs to be used like this to avoid entering a scenario where it is said that one person loves another more.
If she says it whenever she feels it, then so do I.
If she only says it when she is really feeling it intensely, then so do I.
I find this is something that needs to be used like this to avoid entering a scenario where it is said that one person loves another more.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
My thought is, why are you saying I Love You during sex?Bud_Fox said:
Tell her afterwards or before or....any other damn time. Use sex time for sex talk. Not emotional talk.