Saying I Love You during sex....bad idea?

[Bud_Fox]

I read somewhere that by saying I love you during sex the girl will think you only love having sex with her, and don't really love her.

Any thoughts on this?

 

[demezel]

never do it, it is a side of weakness.... its like saying "thank you" after you have nailed her which she would see as desperation. It is like you could not get any booty before and she has just given you what you have been asking god for eternity. thats how i see it

 

[I'm in the Mood]

I read somewhere that by saying I love you during sex the girl will think you only love having sex with her, and don't really love her.

Any thoughts on this?

Nope..unless she's super insecure. Otherwise, saying I love you doesn't hurt. I don't understand why guys make such a big deal about it. It doesn't give away your power to say I love you. You give away your power when you say I love you and act like a pvssy about it.

 

[Juan Don]

i think it's bad if that is the first time or only time you say "i love you". but, if you love each other and have been in a relationship for a while. and she has said the words first then it's ok.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I use ILY in the context my partner uses it in.

If she says it whenever she feels it, then so do I.

If she only says it when she is really feeling it intensely, then so do I.

I find this is something that needs to be used like this to avoid entering a scenario where it is said that one person loves another more.

 

[Iceberg]

I read somewhere that by saying I love you during sex the girl will think you only love having sex with her, and don't really love her.

Any thoughts on this?

My thought is, why are you saying I Love You during sex?

Tell her afterwards or before or....any other damn time. Use sex time for sex talk. Not emotional talk.