"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Say hello to Miss Germany

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https://www.dw.com/en/all-woman-jury-names-miss-germany-2020/a-52394212

At 35, von Hase was the oldest participant in this year's final, which for this year adopted the motto "Empowering Authentic Women."

For the first time, the 2020 Miss Germany contest allowed married women and mothers to participate and did not include a bikini contest. This year's contest also saw the age limit raised by 10 years to include women up to 39 years old. Participants must be at least 18 years old to take part.



So basically an all women jury voted a middle aged single mother as miss Germany against two early 20s hotties and we are all supposed to celebrate it, ofc no bikini walks as it is offensive.

When no matter how ridicolous your jokes are, reality is above them.

If we were to see the dating field and the relationship market according to economical evaluation we could talk about public ingerence toward the value of goods and free market.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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“Ask a woman to name the most attractive female actress they can think of. Odds are it will be a woman (who as a guy you’d never think of)”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

And it will be to them a women that wont as much of a threat to steal their man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, the feminine imperative gotta maintain the glorified image and status of being a single mother somehow, because she wouldn't have won if this was an actual beauty contest as we all can agree on.
 

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most German women do not age "well", been to Germany more than a few times...
 

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I understand your perplexity fellas after all fighting the patriarchy shouldnt be enough nowdays.

Next one should fit the following criteria in order to be MISS EUROPE

1)not necessarily a genetic woman
1a) if genetic woman she has to be a little bit too manly, hairy armpits could help

2)post wall or older

3)ugly because beauty goes above the way you look

4)50 shades of brown® approved unless far asian.

5)single mother

6)at least BI but has to hate men in any case

7)she will be crowned from concita wurst

PS. if you think Im overdoing just remember what we were kidding about here only 10 years ago...yesterday jokes are TODAY reality.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, the feminine imperative gotta maintain the glorified image and status of being a single mother somehow
I work in high schools over in the UK, and kids are completely destroyed thanks to single parent households, self esteem and self harm is rife meanwhile most of the moms are pregnant again by some crotch spawn
 

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I work in high schools over in the UK, and kids are completely destroyed thanks to single parent households, self esteem and self harm is rife meanwhile most of the moms are pregnant again by some crotch spawn
I have young family members who tell me how so many young boys in their schools have immense anger issues to the point where they aren't rationale at all, and apparently it's common and much more counselors are employed to deal with it. I believe over 50% of children nowadays are raised by single moms (more than ever). Not having a father figure or a stable household that can teach young boys how to deal with their emotions is going to lead to many problems in the long run. They need that guidance to think logically and manage their emotions when things don't go their way. And that's just for boys.
 

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I believe over 50% of children nowadays are raised by single moms (more than ever).
I don't know which country you're in, but I assume you're in America where it's 23%, apparently the world's highest rate. But I guess there are different sources for the rates of single mother households as with anything else. This graph from an article claims the UK has the highest rate in the world at 26%, not America.

But that's just those raised by a single mom. You still have those who don't have a father anyway: those who live in an "intact household" on paper because their mom moved in with a new man (like what my mom did), and those who live with their parents but the parents are abusive. If you include those stats I don't know how much larger the % of dysfunctional childhoods would be, but certainly larger than 23%.

I believe if we could just prevent people who are unqualified to be parents from having children, we would go greatly toward solving social problems overnight by stopping the negative cycles.
 
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we estimated a high school recently and came to the conclusion 450 out of 600 are from broken homes
 

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No offense but she looks 40+... that's my issue

I know a lot of 35 years old, who could pass for 20-30.. In short, they still look good.

Meuh... these "miss contest" are ridiculous anyway. (Never been a fan).

The contest used to be a "platform" for women seeking modeling / tv / music jobs / be a trophy wife.

German women never been a fan either
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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