“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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saw my old onitis tonight!!

bilboteabaggins

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about 2 years ago I went crazy over this girl I met and went complete beta onitis, at the time I was a geek that weighed 319 pounds and had no chance with her or any chick over a 5, that onitis started a quest that made me realize I needed to change my life, fast forward to now and I am a decently fit 172 pounds, very good looking, much more outgoing/social and just a totally different guy that can get 8+ HB's wet everyday

I hadn't seen this girl in nearly 6 months, ran into her last night, she got a boyfriend about a year ago that she is now engaged to, total AFC chump that has money, she looks miserable with him but has status now...best of all, she has gotten what I classify as fat, put on some serious weight, I wouldn't even go out with her now LMAO, oh the irony of this situation...and to top it off, she was checking me out real good :rolleyes:

just a neat little story I thought I would share for those that are working to better themselves, pook said it best, behind every good man is a girl he didn't get, had I not went ape sh!t over her I would have never changed my life, maybe one day I still might get to fvck her which I admittedly would just for a good close to the story bahahaha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First of all: HOLY **** that is a ton of weight you lost. You literally divided yourself in half.

And second: There is no greater feeling in the world than having the tables turned with an ex-oneitis. Especially when she is no longer attractive enough to attract you. Congrats!
 

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Congrats on losing the weight, losing the AFC behavior, and losing that b*tch.
 

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wow... what a change. Great story of self improvement. Inspiring!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tiguere

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Dude could you post before and after pictures of yourself. I'm not saying you lying but your story can inspire a lot others here if they see your before and after pics.
 

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sure you wanna see them? they are ugly man, my own family don't even know me anymore LOL

its a shame over this girl though...she was such a hottie, kinda feel sorry for her
 

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I love stories like these! Great job man!

Reminds me of my ex-girlfriend. I was with her for almost a year and I was pathetic after she broke up. Right after she broke up with me I got into all of this PUA/game stuff and it was cool seeing myself change and becoming a better person. Now that I see my ex, she looks horrible and now I just think to myself and say, What did I see in her? haha

Good times though. No regrets.

Love your story though. I'm on Man's side!
 
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