"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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saw my old onitis tonight!!

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about 2 years ago I went crazy over this girl I met and went complete beta onitis, at the time I was a geek that weighed 319 pounds and had no chance with her or any chick over a 5, that onitis started a quest that made me realize I needed to change my life, fast forward to now and I am a decently fit 172 pounds, very good looking, much more outgoing/social and just a totally different guy that can get 8+ HB's wet everyday

I hadn't seen this girl in nearly 6 months, ran into her last night, she got a boyfriend about a year ago that she is now engaged to, total AFC chump that has money, she looks miserable with him but has status now...best of all, she has gotten what I classify as fat, put on some serious weight, I wouldn't even go out with her now LMAO, oh the irony of this situation...and to top it off, she was checking me out real good :rolleyes:

just a neat little story I thought I would share for those that are working to better themselves, pook said it best, behind every good man is a girl he didn't get, had I not went ape sh!t over her I would have never changed my life, maybe one day I still might get to fvck her which I admittedly would just for a good close to the story bahahaha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First of all: HOLY **** that is a ton of weight you lost. You literally divided yourself in half.

And second: There is no greater feeling in the world than having the tables turned with an ex-oneitis. Especially when she is no longer attractive enough to attract you. Congrats!
 
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Congrats on losing the weight, losing the AFC behavior, and losing that b*tch.
 
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wow... what a change. Great story of self improvement. Inspiring!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude could you post before and after pictures of yourself. I'm not saying you lying but your story can inspire a lot others here if they see your before and after pics.
 
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sure you wanna see them? they are ugly man, my own family don't even know me anymore LOL

its a shame over this girl though...she was such a hottie, kinda feel sorry for her
 
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I love stories like these! Great job man!

Reminds me of my ex-girlfriend. I was with her for almost a year and I was pathetic after she broke up. Right after she broke up with me I got into all of this PUA/game stuff and it was cool seeing myself change and becoming a better person. Now that I see my ex, she looks horrible and now I just think to myself and say, What did I see in her? haha

Good times though. No regrets.

Love your story though. I'm on Man's side!
 
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