“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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saw my old onitis tonight!!

bilboteabaggins

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about 2 years ago I went crazy over this girl I met and went complete beta onitis, at the time I was a geek that weighed 319 pounds and had no chance with her or any chick over a 5, that onitis started a quest that made me realize I needed to change my life, fast forward to now and I am a decently fit 172 pounds, very good looking, much more outgoing/social and just a totally different guy that can get 8+ HB's wet everyday

I hadn't seen this girl in nearly 6 months, ran into her last night, she got a boyfriend about a year ago that she is now engaged to, total AFC chump that has money, she looks miserable with him but has status now...best of all, she has gotten what I classify as fat, put on some serious weight, I wouldn't even go out with her now LMAO, oh the irony of this situation...and to top it off, she was checking me out real good :rolleyes:

just a neat little story I thought I would share for those that are working to better themselves, pook said it best, behind every good man is a girl he didn't get, had I not went ape sh!t over her I would have never changed my life, maybe one day I still might get to fvck her which I admittedly would just for a good close to the story bahahaha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First of all: HOLY **** that is a ton of weight you lost. You literally divided yourself in half.

And second: There is no greater feeling in the world than having the tables turned with an ex-oneitis. Especially when she is no longer attractive enough to attract you. Congrats!
 

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Congrats on losing the weight, losing the AFC behavior, and losing that b*tch.
 

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wow... what a change. Great story of self improvement. Inspiring!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude could you post before and after pictures of yourself. I'm not saying you lying but your story can inspire a lot others here if they see your before and after pics.
 

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sure you wanna see them? they are ugly man, my own family don't even know me anymore LOL

its a shame over this girl though...she was such a hottie, kinda feel sorry for her
 

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I love stories like these! Great job man!

Reminds me of my ex-girlfriend. I was with her for almost a year and I was pathetic after she broke up. Right after she broke up with me I got into all of this PUA/game stuff and it was cool seeing myself change and becoming a better person. Now that I see my ex, she looks horrible and now I just think to myself and say, What did I see in her? haha

Good times though. No regrets.

Love your story though. I'm on Man's side!
 
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