Master Don Juan
- Apr 25, 2021
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I believe you and I KNOW certain women respond to it. Perhaps even most. But I never did. Without even knowing what it was, it seemed so contrived and phony to me. In fact, I got up and excused myself from dinner with a man (first date) because of how he was attempting to love bomb me.That's from Narcissism, which is a mask people hide behind to cover up their insecurity. I know this because this is the problem I have.
Actually it's the opposite, narcissists use this tactic to lure people in. It's called Love Bombing and it's how they get someone hooked. I know this works since this is exactly what I used to do early on without even realising it. It's like a drug I got the girls addicted to my constant attention and when i took it away it made them desperate for more.
In the beginning stages, all that attention turns me off. I find it needy if not disingenuous. The guy doesn't even know me for goodness sakes, and he's coming on like that? No thank you, not for me. It's phony. I prefer REAL.
I also prefer a certain amount of space in my dating experiences (and relationships), distance. I sort of like wondering about a man and missing him.
I am a bit of an anomaly though, not typical of most women so I get it.