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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Sauna?

speakeasy

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While at the gym today I was walking past the steam and sauna room and I asked myself what exactly does it do for you health wise? I have no idea.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Berlex

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supposed to be good for the skin...by sweating you release toxins...right?
 

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There is a lot of rubbish talked about Saunas.

Sweating can clear pores and release toxins,

but really the main effect of a suana and the reason they exist - relaxation.

Pure relaxation - a sauna helps your mental health - it does little for your physical health.
 

SmoothTalker

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They're definitely also good for circulation as the heat expands all your blood vessals.

I've heard there might be a minor cardio effect as your heart and lungs do work harder to keep you cool. Nothing too major, but for all you guys that think running should be avoided like the plague, it might be a good idea.

There's not a lot of concrete evidence, but lets just say that most north european cultures have used these for centuries, and they're usually quite robust and healthy. Despite the fact that they eat TONS of saturated fat. So, couldn't hurt. At worst you'll have spent 10-15 minutes relaxing.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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mintxx

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Warboss Alex said:
Why should tons of saturated fat be bad, sauna or no sauna?
haha why indeed. depends what 'tons' is shorthand for.

mmm bacon rind
 

SmoothTalker

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True enough, this obsession with cutting natural fats (while stuffing ourselves with trans fats and other garbage) is doing more harm than good.

I guess that's another thing they have going for them, but that's not what this thread is about.
 

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Of course any weight loss from a sauna is water.

I don't like being in a room sweating with a bunch of other sweaty guys though.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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