"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Saturday night fcuk up

Chlarence

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I know there is a post about this somewhere but I got to tell you guys about what happened to me last Saturday night.

Just recently I started hanging around with a group of guys who are natural djs to see what I can learn from them, one of them has had up to 5 girls on the go at once.

Anyway we went out last Saturday night, it was my turn to drive so no drinks for me. So we go to a few bars just having a laugh and a joke with a few of the girls, nothing major. Then we end up in this tiny club that plays old skool dance tunes, the place was rockin!!

So me and the boys are dancing away to the awesome tunes getting quite a few glances off the ladies when this blond girl (about 25, hb7) comes up to me, stares me right in the eye, then puts her hand up my shirt then down towards my d!ck. Then she sticks her pierced tongue out at me!! OMG!!

So what did I do, well because I was sober I just froze and didn't say or do anything, to which she just looked at me then walked away with a dissapointed look on her face, Damn Damn Damn!!

I tell you this sort of thing has been happening too much lately, not to that extent, but I get approached nearly every time I go out with these natural djs, it's kind of bizarre!! But I have to start doing something about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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unamean

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when she stuck her tongue out you should have kissed her, that was a given. theres nothing else you could have done, besides what you did.
 

So Many Ways

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Don't you just love it when women are that bold? It catches you totally off guard since it's not the norm. I've had it happen to me before, don't worry too much about it, just be prepared to act the next time it happens.
 
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