"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Saturday night fcuk up

Chlarence

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I know there is a post about this somewhere but I got to tell you guys about what happened to me last Saturday night.

Just recently I started hanging around with a group of guys who are natural djs to see what I can learn from them, one of them has had up to 5 girls on the go at once.

Anyway we went out last Saturday night, it was my turn to drive so no drinks for me. So we go to a few bars just having a laugh and a joke with a few of the girls, nothing major. Then we end up in this tiny club that plays old skool dance tunes, the place was rockin!!

So me and the boys are dancing away to the awesome tunes getting quite a few glances off the ladies when this blond girl (about 25, hb7) comes up to me, stares me right in the eye, then puts her hand up my shirt then down towards my d!ck. Then she sticks her pierced tongue out at me!! OMG!!

So what did I do, well because I was sober I just froze and didn't say or do anything, to which she just looked at me then walked away with a dissapointed look on her face, Damn Damn Damn!!

I tell you this sort of thing has been happening too much lately, not to that extent, but I get approached nearly every time I go out with these natural djs, it's kind of bizarre!! But I have to start doing something about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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unamean

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when she stuck her tongue out you should have kissed her, that was a given. theres nothing else you could have done, besides what you did.
 

So Many Ways

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Don't you just love it when women are that bold? It catches you totally off guard since it's not the norm. I've had it happen to me before, don't worry too much about it, just be prepared to act the next time it happens.
 
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