Sarging Solo tonight!

donjuanapprentice01

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Yes guys.. going to a couple of clubs tonight, by myself. This sis a HUGE step. I don't have many friends, so I'm doing this completely solo.

Ideas about tonight:

1. Ask any girl, if she wants to have sex. Yup, straight to the point, might work, you never know.

2. Make eye contact with everyone.

3. Say hi to everyone

4. Dance solo. Dancing solo is better than staying around the perimiter if you are there alone. Dance floor gives opportunity to grind.

There you go, pretty much covers it. I feel comfortable enough to do this. Wish me luck! :up:
 

donjuanapprentice01

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OK, here's the FR guys.

Unfortunately, not so good I'm afraid :(

Went on the dancefloor, tried to bump into a few chicks, but they looked at me with this wierd look on their face, like a "get lost" look.

A couple girls did grind with me on the dancefloor, but after, promptly took off couldn't get a #.

Walking around the perimiter, couldn't get the courage to talk to anyone, apart from saying "Hi". Don't know why. Honestly, preferred the dancefloor, made it easier on me, maybe because there were chicks who grinded with me for a bit? Plus, didn't have to talk much there.

Big step, nothing huge to report, didn't get a number, so I'll take it as a failure. But, I will do it again,some positives, but not a hell of a lot.
 

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not a good plan of attack

1. Ask any girl, if she wants to have sex. Yup, straight to the point, might work, you never know.
You're just starting out, right? This takes balls, and very little class. I know you didn't do it anyway, but the girls who gave you the 'get lost' look sensed your desperation.
Get comfortable first. Enter into conversations with girls AND other guys.
 

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Ol'BlueEyes said:
Get comfortable first. Enter into conversations with girls AND other guys.
Yeah this is key - if you solo you need to come across as the confident funny relaxed guy that probably knows alot of people anywhere he goes anyway. Not the desperate "wanna have sex" guy - sure that takes balls but its creepy :down:
 

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