"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sarging Solo tonight!

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donjuanapprentice01

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Yes guys.. going to a couple of clubs tonight, by myself. This sis a HUGE step. I don't have many friends, so I'm doing this completely solo.

Ideas about tonight:

1. Ask any girl, if she wants to have sex. Yup, straight to the point, might work, you never know.

2. Make eye contact with everyone.

3. Say hi to everyone

4. Dance solo. Dancing solo is better than staying around the perimiter if you are there alone. Dance floor gives opportunity to grind.

There you go, pretty much covers it. I feel comfortable enough to do this. Wish me luck! :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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donjuanapprentice01

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OK, here's the FR guys.

Unfortunately, not so good I'm afraid :(

Went on the dancefloor, tried to bump into a few chicks, but they looked at me with this wierd look on their face, like a "get lost" look.

A couple girls did grind with me on the dancefloor, but after, promptly took off couldn't get a #.

Walking around the perimiter, couldn't get the courage to talk to anyone, apart from saying "Hi". Don't know why. Honestly, preferred the dancefloor, made it easier on me, maybe because there were chicks who grinded with me for a bit? Plus, didn't have to talk much there.

Big step, nothing huge to report, didn't get a number, so I'll take it as a failure. But, I will do it again,some positives, but not a hell of a lot.
 
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not a good plan of attack

1. Ask any girl, if she wants to have sex. Yup, straight to the point, might work, you never know.
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You're just starting out, right? This takes balls, and very little class. I know you didn't do it anyway, but the girls who gave you the 'get lost' look sensed your desperation.
Get comfortable first. Enter into conversations with girls AND other guys.
 
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Ol'BlueEyes said:
Get comfortable first. Enter into conversations with girls AND other guys.
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Yeah this is key - if you solo you need to come across as the confident funny relaxed guy that probably knows alot of people anywhere he goes anyway. Not the desperate "wanna have sex" guy - sure that takes balls but its creepy :down:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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