"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Sarging Solo tonight!

D

donjuanapprentice01

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
211
Reaction score
3
Yes guys.. going to a couple of clubs tonight, by myself. This sis a HUGE step. I don't have many friends, so I'm doing this completely solo.

Ideas about tonight:

1. Ask any girl, if she wants to have sex. Yup, straight to the point, might work, you never know.

2. Make eye contact with everyone.

3. Say hi to everyone

4. Dance solo. Dancing solo is better than staying around the perimiter if you are there alone. Dance floor gives opportunity to grind.

There you go, pretty much covers it. I feel comfortable enough to do this. Wish me luck! :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

D

donjuanapprentice01

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
211
Reaction score
3
OK, here's the FR guys.

Unfortunately, not so good I'm afraid :(

Went on the dancefloor, tried to bump into a few chicks, but they looked at me with this wierd look on their face, like a "get lost" look.

A couple girls did grind with me on the dancefloor, but after, promptly took off couldn't get a #.

Walking around the perimiter, couldn't get the courage to talk to anyone, apart from saying "Hi". Don't know why. Honestly, preferred the dancefloor, made it easier on me, maybe because there were chicks who grinded with me for a bit? Plus, didn't have to talk much there.

Big step, nothing huge to report, didn't get a number, so I'll take it as a failure. But, I will do it again,some positives, but not a hell of a lot.
 
O

Ol'BlueEyes

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2002
Messages
389
Reaction score
0
Age
48
Location
The towner
not a good plan of attack

1. Ask any girl, if she wants to have sex. Yup, straight to the point, might work, you never know.
Click to expand...
You're just starting out, right? This takes balls, and very little class. I know you didn't do it anyway, but the girls who gave you the 'get lost' look sensed your desperation.
Get comfortable first. Enter into conversations with girls AND other guys.
 
K

Krang!

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 24, 2006
Messages
68
Reaction score
1
Ol'BlueEyes said:
Get comfortable first. Enter into conversations with girls AND other guys.
Click to expand...
Yeah this is key - if you solo you need to come across as the confident funny relaxed guy that probably knows alot of people anywhere he goes anyway. Not the desperate "wanna have sex" guy - sure that takes balls but its creepy :down:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top