You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Relax Ninja Gayden lolOriginally posted by Black_Italian
Doesn’t even know what his smoking what a junkie, you wanted to be like Tyler Durden the other day since when is Tyler a junkie you piece of sh*t. I have absolutely no respect for low life junkies.
Ninja out
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've obviously never been to Saudi Arabia...Originally posted by Q-Unit
England is the most frigid and prudish country in the world.
Funny you should say this, just resently I was hanging out with a groupe of french people. One of the guys spent alot of time telling me about how french girls where reserved and wouldent put out. One of the french girls however repetently tried to break into our conversation. 2 minutes after I got out of the conversation about how diffecult it was to pull a french girl I was making out with one, was great funOriginally posted by Hound_of_Love
In France women are more likely to chase you. They see what they want and go for it.