You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Relax Ninja Gayden lolOriginally posted by Black_Italian
Doesn’t even know what his smoking what a junkie, you wanted to be like Tyler Durden the other day since when is Tyler a junkie you piece of sh*t. I have absolutely no respect for low life junkies.
Ninja out
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've obviously never been to Saudi Arabia...Originally posted by Q-Unit
England is the most frigid and prudish country in the world.
Funny you should say this, just resently I was hanging out with a groupe of french people. One of the guys spent alot of time telling me about how french girls where reserved and wouldent put out. One of the french girls however repetently tried to break into our conversation. 2 minutes after I got out of the conversation about how diffecult it was to pull a french girl I was making out with one, was great funOriginally posted by Hound_of_Love
In France women are more likely to chase you. They see what they want and go for it.