"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sarging Day (Challenge)

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I had an idea: I will take a day only for sarging. I mean I do nothing else but sarge, eat, piss. I think I can do overall 8 hours of sarging, I just need the rejections to go on with the bootcamp, besides I think it would be an interesting challenge for me. I always noticed how sh!tty I felt when going out, and how much better after 2-3 approaches.

How many approaches do you think I can make in 1 day? 10? 20? 50? I have no idea, but it will sure be fun.

Gonna do it this saturday (only if it doesnt rain). If there is anybody else willing to accept the challenge with me, be my guest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Impact said:
I had an idea: I will take a day only for sarging. I mean I do nothing else but sarge, eat, piss. I think I can do overall 8 hours of sarging, I just need the rejections to go on with the bootcamp, besides I think it would be an interesting challenge for me. I always noticed how sh!tty I felt when going out, and how much better after 2-3 approaches.

How many approaches do you think I can make in 1 day? 10? 20? 50? I have no idea, but it will sure be fun.

Gonna do it this saturday (only if it doesnt rain). If there is anybody else willing to accept the challenge with me, be my guest.
Sounds good. Even better is getting a competition going with your boys.

Do a strip club sarging.

Only pay cover and drinks.

Bring a couple boys and challenge to see which can get the most numbers.
 

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WORKEROUTER said:
Sounds good. Even better is getting a competition going with your boys.

Do a strip club sarging.

Only pay cover and drinks.

Bring a couple boys and challenge to see which can get the most numbers.
Morning and during the day: mall, street, parks
Evening: clubs

I usually go to clubs with free entry, so that if I dont like the music or atmosphere I can go anytime, thats why I'm not going to limit myself only for a club
 
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I'm thinking of doing a NEWBIE mission, so I'd likely make a number of approaches and stuff like that for a few hours or a day until I get used to saying 'hi' to women without thinking about it.
 

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I was planning doing it today, but I was yesterday at a club till late and woke up at 2 pm, so I WILL DO IT next saturday.

The aim of this sarging day is to have fun. I usually go sarging in the evening, and as I warm up after a couple of approaches there is not so much time left for the closes. Thats why I thought of sarging the whole day, warming up in the morning and during the day make some PU ART!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes this is what I considered actually sarging, the day that you go out only to sarge. But Longest I've ever been out sargin was 5 hours and I've ranged anywhere from 20-50 sets.
 

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Distant Light said:
Yes this is what I considered actually sarging, the day that you go out only to sarge. But Longest I've ever been out sargin was 5 hours and I've ranged anywhere from 20-50 sets.
Impressive, I normally do 10-15 targets in 5 hours, but I'll try better. Bondjamesbond was right on the fact that most guys are lazy and complain about having no success. The biggest element in this game is ACTION.
 

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Good luck and I hope you have fun
 
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