Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sarging Day (Challenge)

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I had an idea: I will take a day only for sarging. I mean I do nothing else but sarge, eat, piss. I think I can do overall 8 hours of sarging, I just need the rejections to go on with the bootcamp, besides I think it would be an interesting challenge for me. I always noticed how sh!tty I felt when going out, and how much better after 2-3 approaches.

How many approaches do you think I can make in 1 day? 10? 20? 50? I have no idea, but it will sure be fun.

Gonna do it this saturday (only if it doesnt rain). If there is anybody else willing to accept the challenge with me, be my guest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Impact said:
I had an idea: I will take a day only for sarging. I mean I do nothing else but sarge, eat, piss. I think I can do overall 8 hours of sarging, I just need the rejections to go on with the bootcamp, besides I think it would be an interesting challenge for me. I always noticed how sh!tty I felt when going out, and how much better after 2-3 approaches.

How many approaches do you think I can make in 1 day? 10? 20? 50? I have no idea, but it will sure be fun.

Gonna do it this saturday (only if it doesnt rain). If there is anybody else willing to accept the challenge with me, be my guest.
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Sounds good. Even better is getting a competition going with your boys.

Do a strip club sarging.

Only pay cover and drinks.

Bring a couple boys and challenge to see which can get the most numbers.
 
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WORKEROUTER said:
Sounds good. Even better is getting a competition going with your boys.

Do a strip club sarging.

Only pay cover and drinks.

Bring a couple boys and challenge to see which can get the most numbers.
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Morning and during the day: mall, street, parks
Evening: clubs

I usually go to clubs with free entry, so that if I dont like the music or atmosphere I can go anytime, thats why I'm not going to limit myself only for a club
 
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I'm thinking of doing a NEWBIE mission, so I'd likely make a number of approaches and stuff like that for a few hours or a day until I get used to saying 'hi' to women without thinking about it.
 
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I was planning doing it today, but I was yesterday at a club till late and woke up at 2 pm, so I WILL DO IT next saturday.

The aim of this sarging day is to have fun. I usually go sarging in the evening, and as I warm up after a couple of approaches there is not so much time left for the closes. Thats why I thought of sarging the whole day, warming up in the morning and during the day make some PU ART!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes this is what I considered actually sarging, the day that you go out only to sarge. But Longest I've ever been out sargin was 5 hours and I've ranged anywhere from 20-50 sets.
 
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Yes this is what I considered actually sarging, the day that you go out only to sarge. But Longest I've ever been out sargin was 5 hours and I've ranged anywhere from 20-50 sets.
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Impressive, I normally do 10-15 targets in 5 hours, but I'll try better. Bondjamesbond was right on the fact that most guys are lazy and complain about having no success. The biggest element in this game is ACTION.
 
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Good luck and I hope you have fun
 
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