"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sarging Day (Challenge)

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I had an idea: I will take a day only for sarging. I mean I do nothing else but sarge, eat, piss. I think I can do overall 8 hours of sarging, I just need the rejections to go on with the bootcamp, besides I think it would be an interesting challenge for me. I always noticed how sh!tty I felt when going out, and how much better after 2-3 approaches.

How many approaches do you think I can make in 1 day? 10? 20? 50? I have no idea, but it will sure be fun.

Gonna do it this saturday (only if it doesnt rain). If there is anybody else willing to accept the challenge with me, be my guest.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Impact said:
I had an idea: I will take a day only for sarging. I mean I do nothing else but sarge, eat, piss. I think I can do overall 8 hours of sarging, I just need the rejections to go on with the bootcamp, besides I think it would be an interesting challenge for me. I always noticed how sh!tty I felt when going out, and how much better after 2-3 approaches.

How many approaches do you think I can make in 1 day? 10? 20? 50? I have no idea, but it will sure be fun.

Gonna do it this saturday (only if it doesnt rain). If there is anybody else willing to accept the challenge with me, be my guest.
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Sounds good. Even better is getting a competition going with your boys.

Do a strip club sarging.

Only pay cover and drinks.

Bring a couple boys and challenge to see which can get the most numbers.
 
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WORKEROUTER said:
Sounds good. Even better is getting a competition going with your boys.

Do a strip club sarging.

Only pay cover and drinks.

Bring a couple boys and challenge to see which can get the most numbers.
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Morning and during the day: mall, street, parks
Evening: clubs

I usually go to clubs with free entry, so that if I dont like the music or atmosphere I can go anytime, thats why I'm not going to limit myself only for a club
 
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I'm thinking of doing a NEWBIE mission, so I'd likely make a number of approaches and stuff like that for a few hours or a day until I get used to saying 'hi' to women without thinking about it.
 
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I was planning doing it today, but I was yesterday at a club till late and woke up at 2 pm, so I WILL DO IT next saturday.

The aim of this sarging day is to have fun. I usually go sarging in the evening, and as I warm up after a couple of approaches there is not so much time left for the closes. Thats why I thought of sarging the whole day, warming up in the morning and during the day make some PU ART!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes this is what I considered actually sarging, the day that you go out only to sarge. But Longest I've ever been out sargin was 5 hours and I've ranged anywhere from 20-50 sets.
 
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Yes this is what I considered actually sarging, the day that you go out only to sarge. But Longest I've ever been out sargin was 5 hours and I've ranged anywhere from 20-50 sets.
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Impressive, I normally do 10-15 targets in 5 hours, but I'll try better. Bondjamesbond was right on the fact that most guys are lazy and complain about having no success. The biggest element in this game is ACTION.
 
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Good luck and I hope you have fun
 
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