"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sarge Night-N Y C Meet Is On! Oct 6, 2006

BlackAccord

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Finally, the next huge sarge night is here. Let's make it just as good as the one in June (over 15 people showed).

This is your chance to meet fellow members from the board. Talk and hang out with people who share the same interest as you, MEETING GIRLS! Here's what's exactly going down for the night.

Date: October 6, 2006-Friday Night

Time: 8:15 pm DON'T BE LATE! WE WILL LEAVE WITHOUT YOU

Location: NYC Pennsylvania Station
Outside Hoolihan's (only one in Penn Station)
8th ave side, toward 33 st side
100 yards from information desk
1 flight down from the street level
Right near the only public men's and ladies room on the floor.
7:45pm

Requirements: 21 years or older. I apologize to anyone who isn't 21, but we had a problem last time when a couple members couldn't get into the places we wanted to go to as a group. If you are younger and want to meet up for the first part of the night (probably sarging in bookstores, bars everyone can get into, etc.) then that is no problem. I'd say the age group is roughly 18-30 (me not even being 21-bring a fake!).

What were doing:
8:15pm-Meet up. Introductions. Etc.
8:20pm-Head out and hit the city. Walk around, stop at a few places easy to sarge in teams (like last time), hang out and get to know each other.
10:00pm-Probably start to hit the clubs, bars, and whatever else we decide on as a group or in this forum over the next few days.

No Ending Time, Leave When You Want

Most likely it will be a club or bar for the finisher of the night. Please post suggestions on where you want to go. Dress appropriately.

Please sign up below if you think or are definetly going to go. Leave your phone number and name in your post or a way to get in contact with you. Or message me your info if you don't want to post it.

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BlackAccord-Jeff w/ 2 friends
WestCoast1492
Drum&Bass
theapprentice
KingBeef
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drum&Bass

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Theres a lounge called, Social which is awesome, theres a bar next door to chyna club ..and that same spot vespas..free drinks at 10:00 i believe.
 

theapprentice

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Im good to go

Hey sounds like a good idea.

My cell number is 1917-868-5027.

Im so ready to meet some girls. Im 20 yrs old but I got the age thing covered.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SuperAlbert

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Oh yea, I'll be really early at the bar drinkin it up... I'll be the only asian dude there.

Yo Drum! Are you drivin? I'll be limited on my time till 12:30 so I hope you are. =)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BlackAccord

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BlackAccord-Jeff w/ 2 friends
WestCoast1492
Drum&Bass
theapprentice
KingBeef
SuperAlbert
Camden
donArjun (maybe)
 

SuperAlbert

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Hahah I showed up yesterday on a saturday night. I talked to Drum and I was like where's everyone? and then he said we missed it by one night. Damnit!
 

BlackAccord

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lol yeah he called me saturday night to tell me he was running late, and im like huh? wrong day..

it was a good night, about 8 people showed, we sarged for a while, then broke into groups of 4 to finish up the night

our group hit some nyu bars, random places and street, and finished off with a fit bar
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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