"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sarge Night-N Y C Meet Is On! Oct 6, 2006

BlackAccord

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Finally, the next huge sarge night is here. Let's make it just as good as the one in June (over 15 people showed).

This is your chance to meet fellow members from the board. Talk and hang out with people who share the same interest as you, MEETING GIRLS! Here's what's exactly going down for the night.

Date: October 6, 2006-Friday Night

Time: 8:15 pm DON'T BE LATE! WE WILL LEAVE WITHOUT YOU

Location: NYC Pennsylvania Station
Outside Hoolihan's (only one in Penn Station)
8th ave side, toward 33 st side
100 yards from information desk
1 flight down from the street level
Right near the only public men's and ladies room on the floor.
7:45pm

Requirements: 21 years or older. I apologize to anyone who isn't 21, but we had a problem last time when a couple members couldn't get into the places we wanted to go to as a group. If you are younger and want to meet up for the first part of the night (probably sarging in bookstores, bars everyone can get into, etc.) then that is no problem. I'd say the age group is roughly 18-30 (me not even being 21-bring a fake!).

What were doing:
8:15pm-Meet up. Introductions. Etc.
8:20pm-Head out and hit the city. Walk around, stop at a few places easy to sarge in teams (like last time), hang out and get to know each other.
10:00pm-Probably start to hit the clubs, bars, and whatever else we decide on as a group or in this forum over the next few days.

No Ending Time, Leave When You Want

Most likely it will be a club or bar for the finisher of the night. Please post suggestions on where you want to go. Dress appropriately.

Please sign up below if you think or are definetly going to go. Leave your phone number and name in your post or a way to get in contact with you. Or message me your info if you don't want to post it.

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BlackAccord-Jeff w/ 2 friends
WestCoast1492
Drum&Bass
theapprentice
KingBeef
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Drum&Bass

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Theres a lounge called, Social which is awesome, theres a bar next door to chyna club ..and that same spot vespas..free drinks at 10:00 i believe.
 

theapprentice

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Im good to go

Hey sounds like a good idea.

My cell number is 1917-868-5027.

Im so ready to meet some girls. Im 20 yrs old but I got the age thing covered.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SuperAlbert

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Oh yea, I'll be really early at the bar drinkin it up... I'll be the only asian dude there.

Yo Drum! Are you drivin? I'll be limited on my time till 12:30 so I hope you are. =)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BlackAccord

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BlackAccord-Jeff w/ 2 friends
WestCoast1492
Drum&Bass
theapprentice
KingBeef
SuperAlbert
Camden
donArjun (maybe)
 

SuperAlbert

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Hahah I showed up yesterday on a saturday night. I talked to Drum and I was like where's everyone? and then he said we missed it by one night. Damnit!
 

BlackAccord

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lol yeah he called me saturday night to tell me he was running late, and im like huh? wrong day..

it was a good night, about 8 people showed, we sarged for a while, then broke into groups of 4 to finish up the night

our group hit some nyu bars, random places and street, and finished off with a fit bar
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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