"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sarge Night-N Y C Meet Is On! Oct 6, 2006

BlackAccord

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Finally, the next huge sarge night is here. Let's make it just as good as the one in June (over 15 people showed).

This is your chance to meet fellow members from the board. Talk and hang out with people who share the same interest as you, MEETING GIRLS! Here's what's exactly going down for the night.

Date: October 6, 2006-Friday Night

Time: 8:15 pm DON'T BE LATE! WE WILL LEAVE WITHOUT YOU

Location: NYC Pennsylvania Station
Outside Hoolihan's (only one in Penn Station)
8th ave side, toward 33 st side
100 yards from information desk
1 flight down from the street level
Right near the only public men's and ladies room on the floor.
7:45pm

Requirements: 21 years or older. I apologize to anyone who isn't 21, but we had a problem last time when a couple members couldn't get into the places we wanted to go to as a group. If you are younger and want to meet up for the first part of the night (probably sarging in bookstores, bars everyone can get into, etc.) then that is no problem. I'd say the age group is roughly 18-30 (me not even being 21-bring a fake!).

What were doing:
8:15pm-Meet up. Introductions. Etc.
8:20pm-Head out and hit the city. Walk around, stop at a few places easy to sarge in teams (like last time), hang out and get to know each other.
10:00pm-Probably start to hit the clubs, bars, and whatever else we decide on as a group or in this forum over the next few days.

No Ending Time, Leave When You Want

Most likely it will be a club or bar for the finisher of the night. Please post suggestions on where you want to go. Dress appropriately.

Please sign up below if you think or are definetly going to go. Leave your phone number and name in your post or a way to get in contact with you. Or message me your info if you don't want to post it.

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BlackAccord-Jeff w/ 2 friends
WestCoast1492
Drum&Bass
theapprentice
KingBeef
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Drum&Bass

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Theres a lounge called, Social which is awesome, theres a bar next door to chyna club ..and that same spot vespas..free drinks at 10:00 i believe.
 

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Im good to go

Hey sounds like a good idea.

My cell number is 1917-868-5027.

Im so ready to meet some girls. Im 20 yrs old but I got the age thing covered.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh yea, I'll be really early at the bar drinkin it up... I'll be the only asian dude there.

Yo Drum! Are you drivin? I'll be limited on my time till 12:30 so I hope you are. =)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BlackAccord

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BlackAccord-Jeff w/ 2 friends
WestCoast1492
Drum&Bass
theapprentice
KingBeef
SuperAlbert
Camden
donArjun (maybe)
 

SuperAlbert

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Hahah I showed up yesterday on a saturday night. I talked to Drum and I was like where's everyone? and then he said we missed it by one night. Damnit!
 

BlackAccord

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lol yeah he called me saturday night to tell me he was running late, and im like huh? wrong day..

it was a good night, about 8 people showed, we sarged for a while, then broke into groups of 4 to finish up the night

our group hit some nyu bars, random places and street, and finished off with a fit bar
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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