"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sample story of why being an AFC sucks

xectxny19x

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I'm probably going to get plenty of "I told you so" comments, but I just want to share my latest story just in case there's some AFC on here who still doubt the DJ ways.

Anyway, in April, I got a date w/ this HB9.8. The girl's gorgeous which is probably why my AFC ways re-emerged. Getting her number & e-mail was simple w/ my DJ ways, b/c I didn't really care whether she gave it to me or not. After the first date, she starts the game playing. She doesn't call me until 2 weeks+ later. I don't know. She just called me out of the blue...I thought I had already NEXT her.

So she gave me the excuse she was busy w/ finals. Being the FCUKING chump that I am, I took it b/c I was busy w/ finals, too. But really, how long does it take to pick up the phone just to say what's up? Yep, see what happens, when you have AFC lens on? Obvious reasoning just doesn't exist.

I gave this girl another chance, but I pretty much didn't talk to her or cut our phone conversations to 5-10 mins. After our second date, I went back to being AFC again. Damn I'm pretty good when I don't see the girl. AFCness jumps in again when I do get to see her. She started calling me all the time and everyday...wanting to go out. Then I kept refusing to go out with her...I was busy...not that I didn't want to go out w/ her...FCUKING AFC! So I'm thinking this girl really likes me. Then, I start calling back to match in tune w/ hers. You know the outcome...she just disappears again!

There goes my latest story. May other AFCs learn from this. DJs keep doing what you're doing!:woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sayajin_Prince

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she's an attention *****. she just called you back because she wanted attention when u fed it to her she vanished, probably found another afc to play her games with.
 

sux2bu

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i dont understand this one:

"Then I kept refusing to go out with her...I was busy...not that I didn't want to go out w/ her...FCUKING AFC! "
 

xectxny19x

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Girl pretty much kept asking me to go out w/ her, but I was too busy. It's not that I didn't want to go out with her. You know how when you don't go out w/ some people...it's either you're busy or you just plain don't want to go out with them? That's what I mean. When she kept pursuing me, I started to MAKE time for her (big mistake).:eek:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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