"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sample story of why being an AFC sucks

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I'm probably going to get plenty of "I told you so" comments, but I just want to share my latest story just in case there's some AFC on here who still doubt the DJ ways.

Anyway, in April, I got a date w/ this HB9.8. The girl's gorgeous which is probably why my AFC ways re-emerged. Getting her number & e-mail was simple w/ my DJ ways, b/c I didn't really care whether she gave it to me or not. After the first date, she starts the game playing. She doesn't call me until 2 weeks+ later. I don't know. She just called me out of the blue...I thought I had already NEXT her.

So she gave me the excuse she was busy w/ finals. Being the FCUKING chump that I am, I took it b/c I was busy w/ finals, too. But really, how long does it take to pick up the phone just to say what's up? Yep, see what happens, when you have AFC lens on? Obvious reasoning just doesn't exist.

I gave this girl another chance, but I pretty much didn't talk to her or cut our phone conversations to 5-10 mins. After our second date, I went back to being AFC again. Damn I'm pretty good when I don't see the girl. AFCness jumps in again when I do get to see her. She started calling me all the time and everyday...wanting to go out. Then I kept refusing to go out with her...I was busy...not that I didn't want to go out w/ her...FCUKING AFC! So I'm thinking this girl really likes me. Then, I start calling back to match in tune w/ hers. You know the outcome...she just disappears again!

There goes my latest story. May other AFCs learn from this. DJs keep doing what you're doing!:woo:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she's an attention *****. she just called you back because she wanted attention when u fed it to her she vanished, probably found another afc to play her games with.
 
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i dont understand this one:

"Then I kept refusing to go out with her...I was busy...not that I didn't want to go out w/ her...FCUKING AFC! "
 
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Girl pretty much kept asking me to go out w/ her, but I was too busy. It's not that I didn't want to go out with her. You know how when you don't go out w/ some people...it's either you're busy or you just plain don't want to go out with them? That's what I mean. When she kept pursuing me, I started to MAKE time for her (big mistake).:eek:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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