"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Same old story..lol

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1. Met hot 18 year old chic at club on friday night.
2. Call her monday make plans to hang out tuesday
3. Pick her up she comes to my house we talk watch porn make out and F
4. Conversation is great real chemistry I think..
5. Drop her home she gives me tight hug and kiss on lips
6. She calls me before i make it home tells me to call her when im hom
7. I call her round 3am wen im goin to sleep she does not answer
8. Wednesday i dont hear from her so i call at 10 pm she says she is talking to her best friend and will call me back... She never called back.:confused:

What should i do? Im assuming she decided shes not interested? Should i cut her off and assume she just wanted a one night st
and.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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From my point of view, the ball is in her court now, its up to her to return it.

But yeah, that sucks!
 

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7. I call her round 3am wen im goin to sleep she does not answer
I've made this mistake before. Chick asks you to call/text when you are back home safe etc. BAD BAD BAD. I did the same chick that I had great chemistry with and that ended that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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scrouds said:
I've made this mistake before. Chick asks you to call/text when you are back home safe etc. BAD BAD BAD. I did the same chick that I had great chemistry with and that ended that.
Yeh i knew it was bad so I waited till 3am.. thinking it would still look like i did not care that much but i guess any caring is too much huh...lol

Its funny how this game works cause i ignored her first call when she called me while i was on my way home then called her back ... so i guess that did no count to me since i called her back..lol

More info: she did say she just broke up with her boyfriend cause he was too insecure and controlling and she just lost her virginity lek a month ago and im her second person.

Women are funny cause no matter what they do or say you can never depend on stable consistent emotional behaviour from them..:confused:

Anyway well min not gonna contact her at all for a full week, if she does nt contact me that i will forget her.. Damn she was fine like a princess.. oh well
 

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Dude..Don..you banged an 18 year old chick with little effort or expense. :rockon: DO NOT chase after a chick that young. You're much older, she expects you to be aloof and busy so be that guy.

I wouldn't contact her PERIOD! You've already tried to contact her. The onus is now on her to reciprocate. If she does..cool. If not, savor the flavor of tainted youth.
 

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Verrrry interesting about the whole "call/ text me when you get home okay?" thing.

I actually very recently had a chick (who was 19 I might add) do this to me and then pretty much flake out on me the rest of the times I tried to get her to hang out.

This was after I had pushed her up against a car and passionately made out with her for 2-3 minutes, so I assumed her IL was somewhat high.

The funny thing for me is that in context saying "text me when you get home" for her was completely irrational and ridiculous. "Home" for me was literally crossed the street from where her car was.

Anyone else have experience with this? Is this some sort of low key sh*t test? Has anyone had success with a chick after they had uttered this request? And if so how did you respond to it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, she was busy talking to her friend, and forgot to call you back. That happens alot with certain girls when they go blah blah blah. Call her back a couple of days later. Stop worrying..... she finds you attractive.
 

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Daydream Engineer said:
Dude, she was busy talking to her friend, and forgot to call you back. That happens alot with certain girls when they go blah blah blah. Call her back a couple of days later. Stop worrying..... she finds you attractive.
the first time ive ever agreed with díckdream engineer
 

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I think that "text me when youre home" is a low-key **** test. What the hell, I'm a grown man, I'm not gonna give credence to a woman worrying about my safety. My ex always asked me to do that, in 5 years I might have done it that many times.
 

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I always wanted to try the porn thing and see where it went...:rockon:

Younger girls are probably more into it.....
 

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Daydream Engineer said:
Dude, she was busy talking to her friend, and forgot to call you back. That happens alot with certain girls when they go blah blah blah. Call her back a couple of days later. Stop worrying..... she finds you attractive.
Im going with that response .....

ok so she texted me today and asked how i am.. i said great and that we should do something fun this weekend she agreed,, I left it vague since the weekend is so far away if she flakes i will know it done..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cableguy said:
Dude..Don..you banged an 18 year old chick with little effort or expense. :rockon: DO NOT chase after a chick that young. You're much older, she expects you to be aloof and busy so be that guy.

I wouldn't contact her PERIOD! You've already tried to contact her. The onus is now on her to reciprocate. If she does..cool. If not, savor the flavor of tainted youth.

im also going with this ^^^

You sound like you have been there before.. She has 1000000000s of men chasing her and she is just having fun discovering her power so I guess i played my part in her evolution into a ho..lol
 

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Man you are 30 years old messing with a 18yo girl. Not saying its wrong or anything but IMO you should be looking for a more mature girls. Most 18yo's are airheads and dont know what they want .
 

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Man you are 30 years old messing with a 18yo girl. Not saying its wrong or anything but IMO you should be looking for a more mature girls. Most 18yo's are airheads and dont know what they want .

:nono:

Don, your the man, break this broad in good and proper fo sho.
 

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Prodigy746 said:
Man you are 30 years old messing with a 18yo girl. Not saying its wrong or anything but IMO you should be looking for a more mature girls. Most 18yo's are airheads and dont know what they want .

Um yeh they do .. they want to F as many cute guys as they can.. than when they are older they want to f as many rich guys as they can till its time to marry one..lol Older women dont like me cause i am broke and dont want marriage or kids..:up:
 

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Frog X said:
:nono:

Don, your the man, break this broad in good and proper fo sho.

yeh so she called me today saying her aunt dies so they have to do family stuff..lol who know could be bs.. i asked her if she wants to kickit wid me and she said yes. but i get the feeling thats not true oh and they guy she just broke up with is 29..lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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