"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Hey Taiyuu, the "throw mud at a wall" hiring model of sales companies is the SOP for every insurance company who employs an agency distribution model. They've been doing it for 100 years. I spent the last year (until a month ago) at a large insurance company, I was attracted by their efforts to move towards a financial planning model. If you are going to sell insurance, do NOT go with a MA or other "contracting" type of agency; the overrides within a company are bad enough. What I'm saying is, always eliminate the middle man where you can.

Man, insurance and fin serv is the hardest sales gig to thrive under. Most of them are 100% commission, and at the end of the day you are selling something nobody wants to buy. My hat's off to the folks who make MDRT, that business is tough as nails. It's an all-or-nothing business; you can work 80 hours a week and not make a dollar, or you can make 5 grand in two days. The real money in insurance is selling annuities to retiring folks, but then you are competing with the dedicated financial planning companies and the bank advisors, who sit in an office and sell annuities like shooting layups at the gym.

I don't begrudge my experience in insurance at all, it was a tremendous education in sales. But it is one that I paid for with much suffering and hardship, I'm glad it's behind me.

I'm now going after a gig selling television airtime to ad agencies and businesses, I've taken serious initiative to get this job and hope it comes through. It comes with a very nice base (what a concept!) and fat commission schedule. But I had to pay my dues at the insurance company and my other outside sales gigs to get this far.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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backbreaker

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I am a natural born salesman. I don't think there has ever been anyone born to do anything more than I was born to sale ****. i can and have sold pretty much anything from computers, to cars, to complex 5 figure websites.

At the pinncale of my web development company, i probably dealt with 20 clients a week and would sale 6-8 of them websites that ranged from 2 to 15 thousand dollars. Really good money if you hone your skill set, are patient, and willing to take some lumps to learn what you are doing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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