"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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illmatic1005

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i was with my gf at her grandmas house and my frienc alled and asked me where i was and i said 'at my friends house'...

she asked me later why i did that and she feels bad and so do i?

how can i show more love to my gf in the future?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jerry Maguire

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don't do things you are ashamed to admit to people?
or, even better, don't be ashamed and do things in spite of what people think of you.
you were at her grandma's house. BFD. like it's in any way a bad thing to care about your family, or show support for someone you care about, who in turn loves her family.
i grew out of that "i'm too cool to love my family" sh*t a while ago.
 

amoka

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Unless you've been dating for a while now, I won't be worried about it. Whatever happened happened. There is nothing you can do about it.
 

penkitten

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well, her grandma could be your friend... so it isn't entirely a lie.
she feels like you are ashamed to say "i'm with gf "
explain to her that you didn't mean to make her feel badly, and don't worry about what other friends think .
 

ChrizZ

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god, this forum is getting more and more AFC...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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she feels like you are ashamed to say "i'm with gf "

Dude!

This is bad.
You messed up, boy.


You better get your priorities straight, and get your feelings in order.

Know what you want.
Do this now.


Dude, do not do that sh*t again, if you love her.
 
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