"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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illmatic1005

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i was with my gf at her grandmas house and my frienc alled and asked me where i was and i said 'at my friends house'...

she asked me later why i did that and she feels bad and so do i?

how can i show more love to my gf in the future?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jerry Maguire

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don't do things you are ashamed to admit to people?
or, even better, don't be ashamed and do things in spite of what people think of you.
you were at her grandma's house. BFD. like it's in any way a bad thing to care about your family, or show support for someone you care about, who in turn loves her family.
i grew out of that "i'm too cool to love my family" sh*t a while ago.
 

amoka

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Unless you've been dating for a while now, I won't be worried about it. Whatever happened happened. There is nothing you can do about it.
 

penkitten

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well, her grandma could be your friend... so it isn't entirely a lie.
she feels like you are ashamed to say "i'm with gf "
explain to her that you didn't mean to make her feel badly, and don't worry about what other friends think .
 

ChrizZ

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god, this forum is getting more and more AFC...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interceptor

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she feels like you are ashamed to say "i'm with gf "

Dude!

This is bad.
You messed up, boy.


You better get your priorities straight, and get your feelings in order.

Know what you want.
Do this now.


Dude, do not do that sh*t again, if you love her.
 
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