"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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illmatic1005

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i was with my gf at her grandmas house and my frienc alled and asked me where i was and i said 'at my friends house'...

she asked me later why i did that and she feels bad and so do i?

how can i show more love to my gf in the future?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jerry Maguire

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don't do things you are ashamed to admit to people?
or, even better, don't be ashamed and do things in spite of what people think of you.
you were at her grandma's house. BFD. like it's in any way a bad thing to care about your family, or show support for someone you care about, who in turn loves her family.
i grew out of that "i'm too cool to love my family" sh*t a while ago.
 

amoka

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Unless you've been dating for a while now, I won't be worried about it. Whatever happened happened. There is nothing you can do about it.
 

penkitten

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well, her grandma could be your friend... so it isn't entirely a lie.
she feels like you are ashamed to say "i'm with gf "
explain to her that you didn't mean to make her feel badly, and don't worry about what other friends think .
 

ChrizZ

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god, this forum is getting more and more AFC...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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she feels like you are ashamed to say "i'm with gf "

Dude!

This is bad.
You messed up, boy.


You better get your priorities straight, and get your feelings in order.

Know what you want.
Do this now.


Dude, do not do that sh*t again, if you love her.
 
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