"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Safely Selling Items Online

WORKEROUTER

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I am trying to sell an expensive music instrument online and am wondering how to ensure that I am actually selling the item safely so that I do in fact receive my money.

So my question is..how do I safely carry through the transaction. I have had many people from the UK and other parts of Europe emailing me about the item, saying that they can provide a bank check or cashier's check.

How should I sell the item? Would paypal work well?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Use ebay and paypal. When the auction ends they pay you 1st and then once you've recieved the money you send the item off.
 

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What if they claim to have never received the item?

And is paypal the most secure method for selling an expensive item?
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
What if they claim to have never received the item?

And is paypal the most secure method for selling an expensive item?
You send them by registered / recorded post. That way when it is delivered they have to sign it and it is tracked by the post company... If they claim they never recieved if and the post company never recieved a signature for it the nyou can claim insurance back on the item off them and if they say they got a signature and the person you are selling to says they have not recieved it, it's their own problem cause it was lost at their end and you did everything right.
 
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