"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Safely Selling Items Online

WORKEROUTER

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I am trying to sell an expensive music instrument online and am wondering how to ensure that I am actually selling the item safely so that I do in fact receive my money.

So my question is..how do I safely carry through the transaction. I have had many people from the UK and other parts of Europe emailing me about the item, saying that they can provide a bank check or cashier's check.

How should I sell the item? Would paypal work well?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Use ebay and paypal. When the auction ends they pay you 1st and then once you've recieved the money you send the item off.
 

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What if they claim to have never received the item?

And is paypal the most secure method for selling an expensive item?
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
What if they claim to have never received the item?

And is paypal the most secure method for selling an expensive item?
You send them by registered / recorded post. That way when it is delivered they have to sign it and it is tracked by the post company... If they claim they never recieved if and the post company never recieved a signature for it the nyou can claim insurance back on the item off them and if they say they got a signature and the person you are selling to says they have not recieved it, it's their own problem cause it was lost at their end and you did everything right.
 
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