"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Safe to say she like/responds better to action?

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Eph

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EVERY time I text her telling her to come hang with me, she has an excuse. Whether its, "I would, but I'm getting ready for work", or "I'm good"(as in "no thanks) this girl has an excuse ready. But (it seems) whenever I tell her to do something in person she usually "obeys".

Examples:

Me and a couple friends were playing football. We eventually decided to go get her to play (I assume we ALL knew she wouldn't actually play). We get to her house, and I half jokingly tell her to come play. After VERY slight resistance, she agrees to go but won't actually play.

After school one day I was talking to her and she mentioned she was going to Mcdonalds in a few minutes with some of her friends and I say COMPLETELY joking, "lets go". She says, "ok but you have to get something cheap". (Didn't end up going as I had business to take care of; Probably could of played it off better)

Last example: I text her asking if she's busy. She says no, so I tell her to come hang with me for a little bit. She texts back saying, she's in bed, so I respond (again jokingly as is my nature), "I will go up to your room and drag you out of bed if I have to :p". She tells me I can try, so I go to her house, and when she opens the door she comes sit on her porch and she says, "really?" (I assume she was surprised I actually came). She resists some, but eventually says, "I'm cold so let me go change first". (Took her 10 mins or so)

So is it safe to assume this chick likes/responds to action? Or maybe persistence?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah she likes action, so text her minimally. Only to make plans or whatever. But dont keep seeing her all the time though. She'll get tired of you. You gotta be scarce. Next time you get in her room.....You know what you gotta do

Damn you lucky you found this site at 14. If i did it would've saved me a world of trouble, but instead i found it at 16.
 
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Oh, Eph, Eph, Eph...

You're only 14, so I can't rip on you too much. But allow me to tell you a story...

Two nights ago I went to a house party with a friend of mine. When we got there, we called our other friend to open up the door gate. He sends this hot-looking chick to get the door.

From the moment she saw me, I could tell she wanted me... but I downplayed the heck out of it. For the next 2 hours she kept throwing innunedos at me, rubbing up against me, making sure to comment on how nice my butt looked, and at one point actually running up to me, saying "you look cute" and kissing me.

Around midnight, she got her direct deposit paycheck, and wanted to go to the store to buy some more alcohol for the party. Knowing that "isolation" is the best way to hook up with a girl, I told her I'd go with her. We went to the store, bought the alcohol, got back to the party, parked, and we f--ked in her car before going back upstairs.

And how did this hook-up happen? I started kissing her, and she responded. She didn't back away, she didn't say "no, no, not here," and she didn't reject me in anyway. In other words: NO RESISTANCE on her part.

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So what's the point of this story? Simple: when they like you, they HELP you; when they don't like you, they RESIST doing things with you.

If you're getting resistance from her, it means she's not all that into you. Guys on here will tell you, "Well, if you're persistent she may like you eventually." I'm 30, and based on my 15 years of dating I can tell you: if you persist, she may play along to give you false hope, but more often than not you're better off going for girls who are NOT trying to resist you.

All this resistance you're feeling from her is her going along with you so as not to hurt your feelings. And at the age you're at, it can be hard not to take that personally. But trust, as you get older you'll realize that what I'm saying is true: if they LIKE you, they will NOT resist you, and actually SEEK YOU OUT to hang with you. Better to learn it early than later like I did :)

Hope this helps!
 
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