"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Safe to say she like/responds better to action?

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Eph

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EVERY time I text her telling her to come hang with me, she has an excuse. Whether its, "I would, but I'm getting ready for work", or "I'm good"(as in "no thanks) this girl has an excuse ready. But (it seems) whenever I tell her to do something in person she usually "obeys".

Examples:

Me and a couple friends were playing football. We eventually decided to go get her to play (I assume we ALL knew she wouldn't actually play). We get to her house, and I half jokingly tell her to come play. After VERY slight resistance, she agrees to go but won't actually play.

After school one day I was talking to her and she mentioned she was going to Mcdonalds in a few minutes with some of her friends and I say COMPLETELY joking, "lets go". She says, "ok but you have to get something cheap". (Didn't end up going as I had business to take care of; Probably could of played it off better)

Last example: I text her asking if she's busy. She says no, so I tell her to come hang with me for a little bit. She texts back saying, she's in bed, so I respond (again jokingly as is my nature), "I will go up to your room and drag you out of bed if I have to :p". She tells me I can try, so I go to her house, and when she opens the door she comes sit on her porch and she says, "really?" (I assume she was surprised I actually came). She resists some, but eventually says, "I'm cold so let me go change first". (Took her 10 mins or so)

So is it safe to assume this chick likes/responds to action? Or maybe persistence?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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youngmack

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Yeah she likes action, so text her minimally. Only to make plans or whatever. But dont keep seeing her all the time though. She'll get tired of you. You gotta be scarce. Next time you get in her room.....You know what you gotta do

Damn you lucky you found this site at 14. If i did it would've saved me a world of trouble, but instead i found it at 16.
 
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Oh, Eph, Eph, Eph...

You're only 14, so I can't rip on you too much. But allow me to tell you a story...

Two nights ago I went to a house party with a friend of mine. When we got there, we called our other friend to open up the door gate. He sends this hot-looking chick to get the door.

From the moment she saw me, I could tell she wanted me... but I downplayed the heck out of it. For the next 2 hours she kept throwing innunedos at me, rubbing up against me, making sure to comment on how nice my butt looked, and at one point actually running up to me, saying "you look cute" and kissing me.

Around midnight, she got her direct deposit paycheck, and wanted to go to the store to buy some more alcohol for the party. Knowing that "isolation" is the best way to hook up with a girl, I told her I'd go with her. We went to the store, bought the alcohol, got back to the party, parked, and we f--ked in her car before going back upstairs.

And how did this hook-up happen? I started kissing her, and she responded. She didn't back away, she didn't say "no, no, not here," and she didn't reject me in anyway. In other words: NO RESISTANCE on her part.

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So what's the point of this story? Simple: when they like you, they HELP you; when they don't like you, they RESIST doing things with you.

If you're getting resistance from her, it means she's not all that into you. Guys on here will tell you, "Well, if you're persistent she may like you eventually." I'm 30, and based on my 15 years of dating I can tell you: if you persist, she may play along to give you false hope, but more often than not you're better off going for girls who are NOT trying to resist you.

All this resistance you're feeling from her is her going along with you so as not to hurt your feelings. And at the age you're at, it can be hard not to take that personally. But trust, as you get older you'll realize that what I'm saying is true: if they LIKE you, they will NOT resist you, and actually SEEK YOU OUT to hang with you. Better to learn it early than later like I did :)

Hope this helps!
 
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