"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Safe to ask her out?

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John_Smith

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Maybe I shouldn't even ask this question but whatever lol.

Well, I've met this girl only about 2 times, I have her contact information only thanks to facebook.

I'm not sure if she likes me, I'm not very into her (to be honest, I just haven't dated in a very long time) but still, shes not bad looking I guess. She has no bf according to profile.

I haven't given too much information, but I only have her email and stuff, do you think it would be safe to ask her for a movie or something?

I'm not looking to get laid, getting tired of that already.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NO IT IS NOT SAFE!!

She'll show up with a bomb strapped to her body, carrying at least two swords and an AK-47.

So don't risk it!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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S1NN3R

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Good_ol_boy said:
NO IT IS NOT SAFE!!

She'll show up with a bomb strapped to her body, carrying at least two swords and an AK-47.

So don't risk it!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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My kinda girl. :D

Anyway, of course it's safe to ask her out. You're not the UN, the worst she can do is say no.

On the other hand, if you're not even that into her, why ask her out at all? Why not spend your time looking for someone you are into?
 
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