"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Safe to ask her out?

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John_Smith

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Maybe I shouldn't even ask this question but whatever lol.

Well, I've met this girl only about 2 times, I have her contact information only thanks to facebook.

I'm not sure if she likes me, I'm not very into her (to be honest, I just haven't dated in a very long time) but still, shes not bad looking I guess. She has no bf according to profile.

I haven't given too much information, but I only have her email and stuff, do you think it would be safe to ask her for a movie or something?

I'm not looking to get laid, getting tired of that already.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NO IT IS NOT SAFE!!

She'll show up with a bomb strapped to her body, carrying at least two swords and an AK-47.

So don't risk it!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Good_ol_boy said:
NO IT IS NOT SAFE!!

She'll show up with a bomb strapped to her body, carrying at least two swords and an AK-47.

So don't risk it!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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My kinda girl. :D

Anyway, of course it's safe to ask her out. You're not the UN, the worst she can do is say no.

On the other hand, if you're not even that into her, why ask her out at all? Why not spend your time looking for someone you are into?
 
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