Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Safe to ask her out?

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John_Smith

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Maybe I shouldn't even ask this question but whatever lol.

Well, I've met this girl only about 2 times, I have her contact information only thanks to facebook.

I'm not sure if she likes me, I'm not very into her (to be honest, I just haven't dated in a very long time) but still, shes not bad looking I guess. She has no bf according to profile.

I haven't given too much information, but I only have her email and stuff, do you think it would be safe to ask her for a movie or something?

I'm not looking to get laid, getting tired of that already.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NO IT IS NOT SAFE!!

She'll show up with a bomb strapped to her body, carrying at least two swords and an AK-47.

So don't risk it!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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S1NN3R

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Good_ol_boy said:
NO IT IS NOT SAFE!!

She'll show up with a bomb strapped to her body, carrying at least two swords and an AK-47.

So don't risk it!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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My kinda girl. :D

Anyway, of course it's safe to ask her out. You're not the UN, the worst she can do is say no.

On the other hand, if you're not even that into her, why ask her out at all? Why not spend your time looking for someone you are into?
 
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