"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This girl ive been boning is ok with shagging without a condom. she is on the pill, and all has been fine. no pregnancy threats etc. the problem is that my mind plays these tricks on me, if she does fall pregnant will she have an abortion, will she stop taking the pill to secure me... you know how chicks think. anyways im going to talk to her about it tonight, but i still want to keep shagging her. you think she will be pissed off with me for bringing it up, how should i tell her.
thanks for your input
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It depends how close you are with her i guess. Last night me and my gf talked about it and we havent had sex yet. Id say talk about it with her. Then again it seems your all just about boning her.
 
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well i think we agree with eachother when we started sleeping together that we were just physical, but recently we have been getting a lot closer, and im not sure if minds are changing (including mine)
 
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My advice - keep wearing the rubber.

Listen - it's really not worth it - your just fvcking her - if things develope between you guys - then at that point lose the condom.

I've only ever screwed one chickie without a rubber - ALL the others have been with.
 
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This should be one thing that she should not get upset talking about - I mean, birth control and pregnancy and all that go along with are pretty freakin' big deals if you ask me...don't hesitate to ask, most likely she will be glad to discuss it if you show concern.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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